My rating: 5 of 5 stars
How do I even begin to do this book justice with a review? I honestly don’t think I can. I have so many thoughts and feelings after finishing Becoming that I don’t think a simple review will accomplish everything I’d like to say. But here is my best shot.
Let me first start by saying that I don’t want this review to be a study in political ideology. But that being said, I feel like I need to give you some perspective so you can understand truly how special this book really is. Politically, I fall somewhere in the middle. I see both sides of many issues. My opinions are fairly split and I try to keep an open mind at all times. But when it comes to voting, I generally tend to lean to the right. I did not vote for Barack Obama in the 2008 or 2012 elections. So why am I reading a book authored by his wife?
Because our country is entirely too divided. And because if we continue to only tune into the news and dialogue that fits our political ideology, we will never close the ever-expanding gap.
Somebody told me once, “You shouldn’t listen to respond. You should listen to understand.” And that phrase has really stuck with me. It’s fairly often that I catch myself preparing my rebuttal when somebody is speaking, not really processing the words that they’re saying. And I’ve tried to make a conscious effort to rectify that tendency.
So here I am, listening to an audiobook written by Michelle Obama with every intention of understanding her life through her eyes and experience. And can I just say that it was phenomenal!
Like her or not, you can’t deny that she has led an incredible life. From growing up on the South Side of Chicago to attending Princeton and Harvard and eventually becoming First Lady of the United States, her journey has been astounding. But outside of her accomplishments, I really resonated with this book because of how real she felt as a human being.
Michelle talked about her struggles with fertility and experience with IVF to conceive her two daughters. She talked about grappling with how to approach parenting her children in the eye of the public. How she should balance allowing them the freedom to be children with the potential threats to their lives that required extensive security details. She talked about her work surrounding childhood obesity and how she advocated for healthier food options for school lunch, regular daily exercise for all children, and a garden on the White House lawn to grow fresh produce. She discussed her insecurities. As a highly educated and intelligent lawyer who graduated from two Ivy League institutions, it was difficult for her to accept comments from the public that she only got where she is today because of the success of her husband. She talks about the challenges of being African American in the US and how that has impacted her journey through life. I truly believe that her ability to relate to the everyday woman is the reason this book has become the success it is today. Any woman can see themselves in Michelle’s story and can relate to at least a portion of her life.
Do I think there is an element of bias in this book? It’s an autobiography told from one person’s perspective. Of course there is going to be bias! If I wrote a book about myself, I’m sure there are people who wouldn’t agree with my account of history. So if you are going into this book with a closed mind and less-than-flattering preconceived notions about the Obama administration, you likely won’t enjoy some of the commentary. But, only when we open our minds to understand the perspective of others can we really move forward together.
If you’re questioning whether you should read this book or listen to it, I would highly recommend audiobook. Michelle narrates the story herself and let me tell you… she could be a professional audiobook narrator. I was mesmerized. She truly captivated my attention from start to finish. And at a little shy of 19 hours, it’s quite impressive that my mind did not drift off for one second.
I could seriously go on and on about this book. There is so much to talk about. So many layers to dissect. I would highly recommend Becoming as a book club read because of the plethora of content from which to draw discussion. It could probably be discussed over the course of several separate book club meetings to be honest.
I can’t recommend this book enough. And I wish I could do it justice with this review. I hope I’ve come close and perhaps convinced at least one person to read it (in addition to my husband, who I’ve already persuaded).
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